Ali, you know how loads is talked about on the boards about RL people with good intentions but say/ advise/ do the wrong things to help our sitch's. I believe this is an instance of this. I think that his BMF has *really* good intentions but this could backfire massively. JMO... totally your decision. Do you not think that BF knows you want him back already?
Anyway, should these things really be done by through other people? Can't you just start showing him the great GAL Ali and let him come back to you naturally if that is destined to happen...
A bit more patience is needed here methinks. Time will tell x
