Maybe just meet him and flirt with him? Back to good old flirting? No tears, big R talks, why's etc etc. Just have fun as laughs as you said, make the difference between you and her bigger and let him chew on that for a while? I can see why your friends tell you to call him but I think that will only push him away... Guilt is a reason not to come back in some cases. If you get the chance make your interactions light and fun and full of Ali the funny girl?
I dont know what to say. I am not patient anymore and you know it so take my advice with a grain of salt as you guys say? My witch thing tells me you need to approach him as a woman, not his good old Ali, show him some fun times... Tease him, not surrender. Get him going, you know? How to do that, is another issue. Maybe go somewhere where he AND Helen will be, or would that be too much for you? K
