So your BMF thinks playing the I'm waiting for you & want you back card - instead of the I'm GAL, mysterious, jealousy card???
All I can think about is you playing the jealousy card. But don't know if it's the right one for your sitch & your "delicate flower" BF (yes my H is a "delicate flower" as well).
Just throwing out ideas.
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)