I cant believe I missed your thread, sorry You and Lisa both popped up lately, it must this time of the year again, just about right, a year ago we were having soooo much fun... I missed you too.
So, you want my 2 cents on this? But I am not going to be in a very DBing mode. Here it is: Your H is spineless just as most WAHs here, he thought the grass was greener but he realized it isnt really. He has got himself trapped, probably has promised the OW a lot more than he is willing to give, still loves you but isnt man enough to end it once and for all with her and make a fresh start with you. As long as he feels you 'waiting" he is not going to find the courage to end it with her unless she makes a big mistake, push him for something or cheat on him (would serve him good btw). So my suggestion is, move on as you have been trying to do, make sure he feels it and consider him gone. If that wakes him up, fine, if not, then it's time to cut your losses and be happy again. We have a tendency to excuse and explain why they act the way they do but the truth is they are grown ups and should be able to behave as grown ups. Face the consequences for their actions. Love K
Do you know OW? What is she like? Single, divorced, kids?
