Exposing at EA

[pearlharbr]

I did expose xBF's A to his parents, best friend, and a couple mutual friends (more my friends but his coworkers). It hasn't done me any good. xBF and his family are extrememly non-confrontational so they will never discuss it with him. His BMF has only brought it up as far as saying "you shouldn't dip your pen in the company ink well" so hasn't really challenged his actions. BMF's wife (they've all known each other since hs) would like to rip him a new one but didn't. And the friends who are coworkers are keeping it to themselves because xBF is higher ranking at work.

Ideally, exposing to the cheating S's support group would work. They would question S's motives and actions and not just blindly support them. Unfortunately it doesn't always work that way.

It hasn't done any good in bringing the A to light. But I feel better that the important people know what's going on from my side because he would never tell them what he's done, he would just not say anything ever or come up with some lame "we had problems" line and leave it at that.