\My wife is going to leave me in 5 days--help!

[sadfirefighter]

AFWAW- I am just catching up on your sitch. I am sorry that you are having to deal with all of this. I do know that you have found a great group here to help you through this terrible season in your life.

My sitch has some similarities to yours and I would definitely recommend checking the cell records. Call the cell company and get the login info or have them e-mail you a detailed statement. I never did get a chance to do the keylogger b/c my W was already in a R with OW and she moved out once confronted. I would definitely get the keylogger if you can and set yourself up as an admin on the computer-this allows you to see everyone's account.

I don't know that I can help a whole lot right now b/c it appears I am headed straight for D. I should know more today b/c the W wants to "talk". If she does not have any answers-I don't know what I will do. I am totally with you on the hurt and pain.

These women are/can be seemingly ruthless B*T%H's. They have used us up and now want to drag us along in the mud. It makes a very jagged wound instead of a clean cut-making it that much harder to heal.

The DR book is excellent. I tried some of the techniques and they work. Some don't. I think it depends on approach and the WAW. Don't know if you are prayeful or not but I am (hope this does not sound offensive) and I will keep you and all the many others on here in my prayers and thoughts. For now-keep your head held high; I think it helps keep the tears from falling!