OK my post crossed paths with Julia, but she has said very succinctly what I was trying to say too, avoid "the talk" until/unless he brings it up or until/unless you are perfectly happy to have the talk and realize that it may not result in the outcome you want.
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
