Kass, Chocolate Martinis? I have GOT to try one of them (psst, what are they?)
I'm on day, hmm, dunno, of NC. I feel better than ever, I actually hope that before too long I will be able to re-establish contact, without feeling nauseous. The NC for me is not to make my W miss me or wonder what I'm doing, it's to allow me to heal and detach. So far it's working. Don't get me wrong, I still have down times, but they are much more manageable now.
Pearl, glad you've not given up on men! We aren't all bad ya know Kass, don't you give up on us either!