I will defer to Puppy on whether/when to expose. Just wanted to share my experience with this.
Know that she will continue to lie, even faced with proof. When I confronted xBF re: seeing the OW with specific dates, times and locations he continued to deny and lie to my face. Only during our convo when I kicked him out of the house did he finally 'fess up with a lame a$$ "I guess I was in denial" response. So please don't expect her to crumble the first time you confront her, the chances are slim to none.
Your strength continues to amaze me. Don't get discouraged when the roller coaster dips as it inevitably will. Please remember it's better to deal with the emotions as they occur rather than bottling them up or putting them off.
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If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g