Another feather in my cap is that I know that the OM is out of town on a trip for the next 3 weeks. He left before my W and I had that big convo. So while she can still call and text him, she can't go running into his arms for comfort. And I actually know the exact day he gets back from his trip. Maybe I should plan to get together with my W briefly the day before that to expose the A completely once and for all.
Certainly would spoil their romantic little reunion, wouldn't it? I just loooove playing affairus interruptus!