Thank you all for posting. I really appreciate you taking the time.
Kerry, I went in and ready your story with the link you provided. So much of how things transpired with your sitch seems to be happening with my sitch only being that W is not with OM. W met GF just before Christmas, I could tell she was bothered the next day that I talked to her as she made a comment that went like this, "isn't it something how you end up with an outdoorsy type blond like you have always wanted" I didn't even respond to her when she said this. I didn't think much about it to be honest with you. Just like in your sitch, my kids go home and tell W how much fun they have with GF and I and W told me how much this bothers her, she told me this in tears on the phone about a week or so ago. W has made the comment to me about how mad she is at me for going out and doing things with GF and kids that she always tried to get me to do when we were married. My comment on that was "I told you a long time ago I was going to change and I realized the mistakes I made, you didn't want to hear me and wouldn't believe me and I am determined I will not make those mistakes again rather they be with GF or someone else."
One note I need to add that I don't think I have, my XW is in IC now, I don't know how long she has been going, the only reason I know this is she told me in the past 2 weeks that she doesn't feel her friends, IC or church has helped her as she feels worse off now then she did this whole past 14 months.
My question to you is this, has your W ever started persuing or did she drop it after the D?
