Hmmmmm h just called. Much nicer on the phone, but still a bit grouchy. We talked for a bit and then he said he was going to take a nap and if I wanted to talk later to call him.
He didn't apologize for his rude behavior earlier, but he wasn't as snappy and I just didn't ask him much, just let him do the talking.
He is stuck at the FL airport until the next flight leaves in the early AM.
Ahhhhh what a long week for my h and then he has 2 projects due tomorrow, so that is why he won't be coming over on Sat unless he changes he mind, but I won't hold my breath.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"
He didn't apologize for his rude behavior earlier, but he wasn't as snappy and I just didn't ask him much, just let him do the talking.
glam, Don't feel bad. It is not about you. It's about him. I think he was reacting to your question out of the insecure place he is in. He felt bad that he missed the flight, and might have been beating himself up about it. So when you asked, he was reminded of his "failure" (missing the flight). Try to let it slide off your back. Great compliments from your ex-SIL.
Your H is very busy. Don't feel bad. He is under pressure with the flight thing, the projects, and it is overwhelming not to mention the jet lag.
Give him as much space as he needs the next few days.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Glam, Keep your expectations at zero! Your h is still fragile and is working his way back to you totally, but he's going to have some rough patches along the way. You will need to step back and give him plenty of space.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
