NewMe,

Wow! I'm in a fairly similar situation as you, but still unsure which direction it is headed. I wish I could muster the positive attitude, grace and acceptance you seem to have in your situation. I'm not sure I could feel friendship and love for my wife during a divorce in my present state of mind.

You're right though, life is good, and I also believe miracles are possible.

John


http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Board=20&Number=1655613

Me - 43
W - 40
Lived together - 3 years
Married - 13 years
S - 7
D - 4
Bomb - 05/2008
Separated - 07/2008