(((((All of you))))) I have started home. I drove to Albuquerque today. It's not the most direct route, but it let me stop in at a train store that I ofter mail order from, and do my part to keep him in business and help the economy!
You know, I've been gone a week, and I don't even remotely miss W. Not even a little. The kids, I miss!
LOL I know it seems a bit surprising, and probably just convinces you more that you guys are right to go your separate ways. But she hasn't given you much to miss the last few years has she?
(((Jeff)))
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
Hey Jeff, so happy that you are at peace with it all. And knowing that you hung in a lonnggggg time and did everything you can to save your marriage speaks volumes about you.
I wish you all good things in life, you deserve it. And we all know that your wife is going to look back one day and realize what she gave up.
Charlotte the cat is very happy to see me. The kids say she spent a lot of time yowling at then and looking for me. She has spent a lot of time in my lap since I've been back.
One of the first things W said after I got home was that we have to tell the kids soon. She realizes that she has a lot to do if she is going to meet her timetable, and she really can't do a lot of it without the kids knowing. So I think that will be happening in the next couple of weeks. She wants to do it on a Friday when she doesn't work Saturday, but she doesn't have her schedule past next weekend yet.
She's also worried about the order of financial things. I think she is borrowing trouble, but at the same time we need to make sure it is all done right to make sure that no one gets hung out to dry.
The next few months are not going to be fun. I'll be glad when it is over.
Glad you're home safe & sound, & that at least the cat missed you. lol
I'm sure the kids missed you a ton.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
