Yes, Newcomers had the most traffic so you may want to make a move back there eventually. But for now, you are doing great with the WeeMan.
Regarding your vacation with Weeman. If I were you, I would still go with him. Remember, he still needs your love and attention, why would you deny him of the trip just because his Mom is not sure what she wants anymore? That's not WeeMan's fault so he should not be punished. As a matter of fact, I just did the same thing. Took the kids on vacation and I can tell you that the kids and I had a blast! It's about us now. Not about H anymore and that feels really good. Just consider my advice and you may even see some side effects. I think your W may wonder why you would go on vacation without her and think, wow, they are having fun without me! It will bring some more reality into her world. In the meantime, enjoy your time with Weeman, he is your biggest blessing.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09
