You also asked for what to do, right? I would suggest you present him with the list you presented to us here on the board:
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I guess a real apology, although romantic, seems important to me. I need the story. I NEED the story. I dont want the story. I NEED it. I wish he loved me enough to get over his guilt and selfshiness and approach me, hold me, talk to me sweetly and show me love. I wish he was strong enough to watch me cry, hear me out, discuss, explain and spend time healing. One time for 5 hours, next for 3, next for 1 and then leave it all behind. But I cant have discussions with boundaries and not permitted areas by him. He would have to be ready and willing to talk about anything and everything.
Be this direct and see what happens. It may not be the time to give it straight to him, but perhaps this is something you need to print out for your C. I think she at least should read these words and then help you with how to relay it to H.
