Hi CIW, yes you are right Newcomers has much more traffic. I am sorry you are down tonight. I think you are expecting far too much too soon though. It really is very early days for you on this journey. Also for your wife. No one knows what tomorrow will bring. Keep your expectations at zero but keep your optimism high if that is not a contradiction. As long as your son has routine and is loved by you both and he has his fav blanket, toy whatever around him he will be fine. He will be oblivious at this stage. Please be kind to yourself. Do not look for answers,they may never be found. Your wife is very young and probably doesn't know why this has happened. Try to be patient and concentrate on you and your son. I hope you have a good week end.