When I moved out, H and I had a few conversations about being/getting divorced/dating, etc. At the time, neither of us wanted to date anyone else (I had already started to take steps to separate from OM, too.) I realized I did want time alone. H asked me to stop seeing OM because it would be hard for him to move on with this OM. Does that make sense? Okay. I did what he asked because it was the right thing, and it was what I wanted anyway. Lord, but I really did just want time ALONE.
Do ya'll think it would be appropriate or realistic to remind him of this stitch and ask him to also honor my request? Let's just say for argument's sake that they are not sleeping together. MLC, I don't think they are. Maybe I am stupid. (Puppy??) I do believe there is at least EA. I think it is reasonable but do YA'LL think he would find it a reasonable request if presented with it that way? The only other way to get her out of there is to threaten with a no-contact order and that won't accomplish anything except make him mad.
Melissa
"Standing knee deep in a river and dying of thirst."
