Get those books and read them. I'm seeing some positives in your description, and a chance you can turn this around over time. It may just be that she has been suffering from depression while you were gone and it is turning into a MLC. Stay alert to potential OM in her life, and please do keep posting here on your progress.
Last edited by spellfire; 02/06/0908:37 PM.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A