Stella,
Hi, I've never posted to you. I've lurked in this forum some, I post in infidelity. I'm not sure I've ever read you sitch before, but it is remarkably similar to mine. My H has been "crazy" since 10/06, we separated then. We have had many false reconciliations. It is so hard, I understand completely where you are. You distance yourself from them and then they draw you back into their web. Our ages of us and our spouses are even the same. I also have a DD17, but I have DD20 too.

My H doesn't live with OW, but she works for him. I really don't think they are involved anymore, but can't be 100% sure since we are separated.

They say misery loves company, I just wanted to let you know that you definitely have company. I'm going to try to catch up on your previous posts.

Yoyo




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