Matilda, Aud, and Naej, I've started to read, "Infidelity: A Survival Guide," by Don-David Lusterman, Ph.D.. I'll integrate helpful ideas in future posts, but I wanted to post the book, since it's at my office, and not at home, where I usually post.
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CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."