This sure sounds like it is going downhill pretty fast. "or else"????? wow....wish I knew what to tell you. Whatever it is you guys are doing is definatelly not working. this may sound strange but going dark comes to mind right now. I just do not see anything positive going on in your interactions. You guys are supposed to be reconciling!!!! It sounds like that is not even close to happening....but you know me, i am Mr. negative....i am sure someone else will find a silver lining in your latest exchange.