Has anyone dealt with the following situation?

I came home the other night and just KNEW someone had been in the house. I think most of us have had that feeling. Anyway, after looking around, I determined some items were missing (this is the third time) and goofy stuff had been done. Some of the missing stuff did not make sense -- like a couple of strings of Christmas lights, a purse, a change purse, and the book "Stop Walking on Eggshells." Other stuff got my attention -- like the only set of keys to a car, and the erasure of a couple of contact numbers from the phone memory.

I have a pretty good idea WHO did this, but as always, no proof. Guess I'll pass this on to the attorney for all the good it will do.

What makes them do this kind of stuff?


BS (me) 57
WW (her) 51
M - 27+ years
Sons - 34/21
daugh - 32/26
D-day - (A#1 Apr 98) (A#2 Oct 08)
Status - minimal contact (me)
living with OM (her)
Divorce - Scheduled for Apr 09