Excellent words, thank you. I know one of the outcomes of this situation could be that I end up a bitter old man. Since I don't want that, I hope it doesn't happen. Early on, I figured out I was not going to "gut" my way through this. Went to the doctor for the standard physical stuff, explained my situation, and got some "happy" pills. They don't really make me happy, of course, but I am less unhappy.
BS (me) 57 WW (her) 51 M - 27+ years Sons - 34/21 daugh - 32/26 D-day - (A#1 Apr 98) (A#2 Oct 08) Status - minimal contact (me) living with OM (her) Divorce - Scheduled for Apr 09
