So she seems to be coming out of her fog. We had a 3.5 hour talk on the phone yesterday. I was blown away! We talked alot about not knowing where it would all end up bit realizing that it had to be a brand new realtionship. Taking the good from the past 14 years and discarding the rest.
She told me she felt something wake up in her yesterday that she hadn't felt in years. SHe came home in the AM from a friends and that she felt no judgement from me and I took care of the kid's and let her rest. She said she appreciated that so much.
We went on to talk about both of our EA's and started getting stuff out on the table. It was definatley a baby step.
NO expectations , but hope. No doubt the more I detach and just be there when I can with no expectation she comes back towards me. She also told me to let her come to me. The less pressure she feels she daid the more she wants to.
Thoughts?
***Getting up every day and learning to breathe in a new me. For me and my children***
Me: 43 W: 38 SD-15 S(s): 12,9,7 Separated-2/14/2009 My sitch
