All this statistical talk reminds me of the card I just sent my sis for Valentines.
It says something like (sorry I don't remember the exact numbers)... 40% of wives surveyed think their @ss is too big, another 40% think their @ss is too small. (Open the card)... and the other 20% say they would have married him anyway.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.