Grace-Yes, you should start a new thread. You're insightfulness into your own situation (as well as other's) has always been benefical to so many of us here. I am glad to hear you and your girls are doing okay. Is the communication with your H improving at all?
SC-I am definately on the downhill side of this regardless of what my H does despite my occasional meltdown. Thanks for your encouragement.
My H did show for C the other night. He was late as always but he was there none the less. I think the C is getting frustrated by situation and wants some resolution too so he actually kept us over a half an hour. I wish you all could have been a fly on the wall so you could hear for yourself what my H says. When my H is at C, things seem pretty clear to him. There really seems to be no doubt to him that we are working on the M. My H compared working on our M to when he goes to trial...how he knows what direction he wants to take but he leaves his options open just in case he changes his mind at the last second...grrr! He talked about how we are best friends, have great conversations and he also said that about 4 months ago he realized that I really have changed and that I am more accepting of who he is. We talked more about past problems and ways to communicate so we won't repeat our mistakes of the past. My H even talked about how we need to come up with a plan of how to ease back into the marriage but later when he came over to my house after C, he avoided talking about it...and then he was supposed to call me last night but he texted me this morning saying he fell asleep. He claims he is off schedule because he is in trial. I wonder what excuse he will have next.
I really have no other choice but to just laugh about all of this. There is no point in crying anymore. I just need to continue to focus on the many blessing in my life.
