The frustrating thing is, I've tried to give them his number. Heck, at this point I'd even give them the number for the pagan princess. But they won't take it. And won't quit calling me. However, I did notify my L and suggest that he communicate with H's L about this asap.
I'm hoping that they'll just drop the mediator idea, since it just seems to add a step and a lot of money to the process anyway, without any foreseeable benefit. Except for H to be able to tell folks how wonderful he was to go thru mediation--which sounds more "friendly" than it is. I'd just as soon not go thru the farce of sitting across a table from him pretending he has D13's best interest in mind. We could just come to agreement through our L's. And so far, he's paying all my L fees, since this was his project and not mine.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
