(((T, R2C, Sandycay, Lisa, ITH)))

Thank you so much for your support, it means so much especially as I can't really talk to people in RL about this stuff. All your posts made me smile.

No reply to my email as yet, so no fixed date on a meeting. I mentioned it to a guy this morning and said that I couldn't really expect a reply yet because I had waited a week before replying and he just looked at me incredulously. He just said why are you blaming you for him not responding? Whatever the reason is for him not responding is down to him and whatever he is doing, and has nothing to do with anything you have done. And that made me laugh, I realised I had slipped back into an old cheeseless tunnel of blaming myself. And plus, there is no real reason to email me back right away. Expectations again!

I did have to email him today though to let him know that some cat insurance stuff would be coming through that he needed to sign. I hadn't realised that the cat insurance was still in his name so unfortunately he has to sign to make a claim. One visit to the vets cost me nearly £300.00. She is really poorly at the moment. Basically the thing she has is brought out by stress and all the people looking round the house is really stressing her out (she has issues, is generally needy and clingy and doesn't like change \:\) ). When the vet asked me if there was anything going on that was stressing her out it made me really cross with h and I nearly shot off a stressy email at him but I restrained myself, didn't mention it and just sent a simple one telling him to expect a claim form and asking him to sign it and send it on to me.


M- May 2006
D - Aug 2010
Now travelling the world