a while back he referred to HIS half of the tax refund, that is NOT a father/husband looking out for his family. I think his reluctance to make a decsion to do something one way or the other is a copout. He would love for you to make a decsion for him.....did you ever think the person hes refers to when "someone will hurt" is you?
"ow piad him back"...riiiiiiiiggghhht NOT I used to get those all the time


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest