Sara: It is an extremely strange feeling, isn't it?
Yes it is Sara, its even more strange with kids involved, because you WAS is always around. Like a bad cold, that you can't get rid of.
my stbx called the other night about D9 girl scout meeting, thats 2 weeks away, don't know why she could tell me in peron when I see her in the morning. But I found her comments strange, becuase she told me when the meeting was and said, now that's the day before her birthday, like she was reminding me that her birthday is comming up soon.
This is the crap that drives me nuts, If I don't tell the kids they would never know its her birthday, My plan is to make sure the kids know, that they each have a birthday card for her and I bought a present for the kids to give to her. Becuase its on a school night, I'll have to ask her over for cake so the kids can sing happy birthday to her. Am I going to have to do this for the rest of my life
Well I should be D by valentine's day, I was thinking of mailing ex-w my wedding ring, I want to get rid of it, becuase everytime I see it it's upsetting. Just going to put it in an envelope and mail it to her no note or anything, post marked on valentine's day.
Thank you for checking in on me.
M45 W41 M10.75 years D9, D7, D7, S6 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me New Abbreviation = WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 W files for D 07/18/08