Karen: I would think so b/c I've had talks with D9 and S15 about moving. They both said they would want to move with me. The C has talked to them about it this last time too. I wonder if they haven't said anything though b/c they know H has a temper and to protect me or themselves or something. To be honest I'm a tiny bit scared of H if I'm honest, and moving would prob. give me a little bit of relief from that. I think sometimes he's a little mental or something.
Don't rely on the kids to tell your H anything, be honest with your H if this is truley in your plans (Moving). Eventhough your H is a jerk, being close to him, allows the kids to see their dad and gives you some free time to yourself. I know your H is mental, aren't they all, they are the throw-away part of our generation, if its broke, throw it away and get a new one, instead of trying to fix the problem. This applies to everything for them, including relationships.
M45 W41 M10.75 years D9, D7, D7, S6 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me New Abbreviation = WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 W files for D 07/18/08