Hey ITH.. so many positives, wow, things are so different than before!

I like that he cleared out the closet and talking about more vacation plans and the new lease is a REALLY big deal. I dont suppose he would do any of those things if he still had major doubts, as perhaps he did last summer.

I can hear the caution in you though and thats fair enough, you cant afford to get 'comfortable' yet hey, seeing as like you say, he still isnt wearing his wedding ring. I was wondering though, is this as big a deal as you see it? Is it that symbolic? (it might be).. did he ALWAYS wear his ring before and was this a big deal to him? I say that some men dont even wear a ring when married, but I agree, alot do as it is a sign that they are committed right.

Keep us posted! And move to piecing hey !?
Al xxx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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