I'm sorry it's scary right now. You did a great job listening to her w/o begging/crying. Keep this up! You are already following DB rules. Definitely get DB and start implementing it. Since you're home now, you can GAL and work on improving yourself.

Glad to hear she'll still go to counseling. It is very early on and you have a lot of time. Nothing is final now. We are all here for you.

Me:28, first M
H: 33, second M
Married: 08/08
Bomb: 10/08
H filed D and deployed: 12/08
Served: 04/09
I deploy: 07/09
Hearing date: 08/09