I know the example I gave you was extreme but I wanted to illustrate to you an instance of a father who put his child first however much it hurt him. I don't expect you to react in such a strong way.....but at the moment I do not think you are putting your children's needs first. I think you are using them as a reason to argue/ harbour bad feelings towards your ex and I think that could backfire. A little give and take is required. If your W takes that specific time away from you then she needs to give back time elsewhere.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
