Thank you everyone. **son** thanks for the reminder. I completely forgot about the legal seperation. I do have free legal advise so I will call my L in the morning and ask her about it. Maybe that way I can get temp support. He never adopted my D so I can't get child support. I am also going to the county in the morning to apply for anything that I can.

I talked to SD and ex-wife yesterday. SD doesn't feel comfortable coming to see us b/c she doesn't want to feel like she has to pick sides. I told her and her mom that I completly understand and that we will just stick with email and phone until she is ok with more. I guess H only calls her once every few weeks and they went to a movie a few weeks ago. Pretty sad he has been there for 3 months and has only seen her 2 times for a total of 3 hours.

What should I do about filing taxes? I haven't contacted (emailed or text) in 2 weeks and I really want him to wonder WTH but I kinda need to know if we file married/joint or just do our own and not get as much back by filing married/single.

What do ya'll think?

(((to you all))))

it is so nice to come here and talk!!!!


H-41 (alcoholic)
Me-38
D-13
SD-10
T-6yrs
M-4.75yrs
Bomb-10/4/08
Moved in w/OW 11-13-08

Stacy

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