Hi PMommy, you are echoing my sentiments also. My H is in the same place. Totally indifferent and almost just putting up with me. When people are in love they wear rose colored glasses so their issues or defects dont matter. Everytime I was trying to talk to H he would say things like "you just want to control me", "I can't talk to you" blah blah blah. It was like he totally took off those glasses and saw all of my character defects without the love. I finally went No contact a few weeks ago. I have to see him occasionally at meetings but I do not sit next to him, i make no eye contact with him, and leave immediately after the meeting. I did it to preserve what love I had left for him.
It is very discouraging. Now I am getting served with D papers. Pushing pushing pushing. It was like he became involved with this Ow and less than 2 months later he tossed his 21 year marriage out the window. I am still shocked by it.
I am in the same place as you right now. Will keep you in my prayers for peace and serendity.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
