I'm not understanding what your question is, Pooh?

If he asks you what your plans are, you're certainly under no obligation to tell him if you don't want to.

He sounds like he's in typical fogged-out wayward woe-is-me-ism, and wanting you to "rescue" him emotionally. I personally wouldn't get involved in his drama. Stay upbeat -- not a care in the world!

Puppy