Looks like I locked up another one. Tonite W, me, D11 and D7 went to a friends house for dinner. They have 2 daughters. One is a senior in high school and the other is in 5th grade like D11. They got along really well with my kids. They got each others phone numbers so that mine could call them if they felt like they needed to talk to someone more their age.

Got home and I had asked my W if she would be opposed to me taking my D11 with me to Florida for a few months. Of course she was. So I guess I will be going on my own. Would have been fun to have her with me. But oh well.

I was going to take D11 to a church with me Sunday that I had been going to and I had also taken D11 with me to. They are having a special sermon on getting baptized. My W said she doesn't need to get baptized there. She needs to get baptized at the bigger church we had previously been going to and have all her family there and attend classes first. I told her I wasn't going to tell D11 to do it or not to do it. Wanted her to make the choice for herself and just give her another opportunity to make that decision. W got mad and said no. She feels she needs more education and that isn't her regular church.

Tonite we were talking and my W starts getting undressed then tells me to turn around. Man this peeved me. I said you are my W, I shouldn't have to turn around. She told me to get over myself and turn around. So I did. I mumbled that I know she is saving herself for someone else. She said whatever.
Geez, so the guy she had an affair with was allowed to see her undressed, but not me her husband. UGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG.

I swear, she fights me on anything and everything. Its ridiculous. I can't have a say on one single thing. Its a good thing I am getting the child custody notorized saturday. I still haven't signed the waiver yet because W still hasn't drawn up the custody agreement yet.

This whole thing really stinks.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...