Trying to let go........with love!

[glamgirl]

SC you need to step back from the fire, you are too close and will get burned.

Boy it took me 1 1/2 years before I figured out how to step back.

First of all, your h can't think of anyone but himself right now. You can't expect him to feel he is throwing the m away and that he is not there for s17. Those thoughts are NOT in his mind.

STOP with the ?'s. You won't like the answers. Step back and focus on you.

Stop have convos with others so they won't say to you, forget about your h he is done.

C's don't have all the answers. Only God knows what is going to happen.

GAL doesn't mean your h WILL come to his senses, what it means is that YOU will be alright regardless.

How can your h reflect on what he is missing or miss you for that matter when you are putting it in his face about the M, family, look what you are doing etc.

Sorry SC, but you must let it go for now.

Remember, it has taken my h many years to get where he is at today. He was like never returning, can't see myself in the M, don't want to take care of anyone, it's all about ME! Now look at him telling me I am missed while he is away in FL. Saying he loves me on the phone.

It took the past year and a half to get there. This is a full time job in itself.

Hang in there and don't believe all that is said. Heck, if that were the case I wouldn't be here typing today.

Stay strong girl, this can be done!