trusting good for u.....interesting u mentioned how long u can go with out a thought of x...I was wondering today....gosh am i normal with how much this whole situation stays on my mind...ut i am also noticing a difference in the way I am feeling about what he is doing..i used to just feel hurt and betrayed...now im not as interested and think its disgusting.....and I am actually starting to feel like while our whole family is destroyed he will be the big loser......many older men....fathers of my friends have told me in a sincere way.....he will be sorry...I know some of them speak from experience...good for u trusting keep moving forward....get that Body u want ...I know it helps the confidence too