Spending has stopped (He has no more credit and either does OW)
His calls have stopped
His visits have stopped
I have started working out 5 days a week.
I am working more to better help the family out financially.
I have started to eat more healthy
The house is so much cleaner
I actually can go for about an hour without one thought of ex.
I am looking more toward my future than back at my past.
Life is good.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11