Not too much to report.

Ex is very very quiet.

Anger has stopped.

Traveling has stopped (14 vacations last year)

Bad-mouthing me has stopped.

Spending has stopped (He has no more credit and either does OW)

His calls have stopped

His visits have stopped


I have started working out 5 days a week.

I am working more to better help the family out financially.

I have started to eat more healthy

The house is so much cleaner

I actually can go for about an hour without one thought of ex.

I am looking more toward my future than back at my past.

Life is good.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11