Cinders,

Absolutely, You have to do what is right for you.

You sound good, and confident.

Being dark has done wonders for me. I have found "me" again. I see what is important in life. Ex looks weirder and weirder everyday.

Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11