Don't call yourself the WAS though. She's the one who did it and you're the one who's kept the home fires burning.
You let her initiate the paperwork and filing. Have her do the work since she wanted it. If you end up doing it, it'll seem as if you're condoning it and that's a bad precedent for your son to see.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.