What do YOU want Jeff?" "Not what you think is "best" for the kids or what is best to keep the peace with ExW." Or what is best to ease any guilt I may have.
"What do YOU want Jeff?"
If I do what is best for me, the kids will be fine. Do I want to give up 1/2 my Sunday? Do I want my son enrolled in baseball?
Those are my decisions. If she doesn't like, too bad. The kids are going to have to live their lives in split households - that is the reality of the matter. Period. End of story.....END QUOTE
Jeff, my friend, you are a good man. But to me, this is the reverse of the truth. What is best for our children is best for us, in the long run, and usually in the short run too.
And while I know your w wanted the counselling session to convince you that you were wrong, she would not have succeeded, and it might have had a seed of reality therapy planted in her crazy head...that was my hope.
(( j ))
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