b) he wasnt sure what to do that would make me happy.
((((((Kalni))))))
I think that as long as he is trying to figure out what to do to "make you happy" he isn't getting it. His focus is on the wrong person. Everthing else he said supports that, this just makes it totally clear. If he is just worried about making you happy, he isn't thinking about making himself happy. And if he isn't happy, we know where this ends up!