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So, did you put yours on?


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I don't have it.She does.. It's in her jewlery box


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wow, that's interesting. Try not to mention it. I've been following your threads for awhile now, just never posted to you. Maybe you should start Love Dare a couple of days before V day.. isn't there one about giving a gift to them in the beginning? Maybe you could coincide that with Vday and use the rest to "soften" her up?


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There is always direct and honest:

"I feel stupid and ashamed about taking off my ring. I acted too hastily out of anger and I'm sorry. I love you and I feel like your husband. I miss my ring and I'd like to wear it again."


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Sandy,

Nope My lips are sealed...(sure helps with my attatude)

.....Now ya got me thiking OT....


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I think OT's suggestion is a good one. Could be a Valentine's day gesture?


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Originally Posted By: oldtimer
There is always direct and honest:

"I feel stupid and ashamed about taking off my ring. I acted too hastily out of anger and I'm sorry. I love you and I feel like your husband. I miss my ring and I'd like to wear it again."
Unless her jewelry box has a big padlock on it, I don't think you need to even do that. Just put it on, man.

It's your ring, your finger, your decision, so be decisive!


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Rob,

We had an "incident" where something became "Missing" from my nightstand. Unlike "the olden days" when we were so open to each other we are not back there yet. for now we have evolved into respect for "her space" and I want respect for "my space".
So even though yes it is my ring. I am respecting her space at this time.
Heck if I ask for it back and she refused me then I'm not sure I would I want it back...

But thanks for your input buddy....like the title says... What a long strange trip it's been....

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Now we are back to where you were before, afraid to bring anything up. Have you taken sign language class yet? Just point to her finger, and then your finger, and then to the jewelry box. She will get the message.

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Lol, she might think he wants her to put hers back ;-p


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