Double talk is right. I think I need to back off for a little bit. I am still being too friendly and helpful. The last few days, I have been making more phone calls and offering to help him out. All that does is allow H to continue to cake-eat.
Through all of this, I want to be more independent, take care of H less, and WAL. I still find my mood so dependent on those phone calls and text messages from him. H just called and wanted to confirm whether I was working tonight (he comes to the house on my night shifts) and I found myself getting worried that he wouldn't come over for dinner. I want to get to the place that I don't care if he comes. UGH.
