Where is he getting the money to go to the movies? I know he wants to do things w/his children, but push come to shove, money needs to spent on things that are needed right now. This isn't the time to borrow from Peter to pay Paul.
I am just very annoyed w/your h and what he's putting his entire family through just because he can't see straight. I do hope things work out, but if I were you, there would be no meals fixed for him this weekend. If he asked, I would say h, I've got to reduce the amount of food I fix in order to stretch my money for the rest of the week for food.
Well, tomorrow is Friday, let's see how things go. Did you notice, he got well very quickly?
One more thing, whenever he thinks he's done something wrong and knows that a talk/confrontation may be in the air, he becomes moody and defensive. I've seen this pattern w/your h quite a bit lately. He knows if he behaves in a certain way, you will not say everything that is on your mind. He knows you entirely too well. Time to do a 180 and just have the talk and if he gets pissed, so be it...maybe he'll go back to the dark closet and take it out on the ow for a change.