Which direction do I go?

[Rob1231]

Hi ping, Mike asked me to drop in.

You've already gotten a lot of good advice - here's my two cents.

There are no guarantees. All of us here have had to work on ourselves and our marriages, in spite of the odds being against us, and in spite of a WAS who wasn't offering any hope for the future. Sometimes it works out, sometimes it does not, and the ultimate resolution is ours to influence but not to control.

So, you have two relationships with women in your life now. Each R offers different rewards, and each offers different risks. Weigh the pros and cons. Neither choice is right or wrong, but I think you do need to choose and commit to pursuing one or the other.

Good luck!